Being Nervous about Your Boudoir Session is Normal: A Photographer's Perspective from Wausau, Wisconsin
As a boudoir photographer based in Wausau, Wisconsin, I've come to realize that being nervous before a boudoir session is absolutely normal. In fact, I'd go as far as saying that it's expected. Why? Because stepping into a boudoir session is often a leap outside one's comfort zone, an experience that's entirely new, and an act of embracing oneself in ways we're not entirely accustomed to in our daily lives.
In my line of work, I've encountered countless clients who walk through my studio doors with a flutter of nerves dancing in their stomachs. Yet, the beautiful irony lies in the fact that despite their palpable nerves, once the session begins, those same individuals radiate confidence, elegance, and a newfound sense of empowerment that's incredibly uplifting to witness!
It's intriguing how many of us aren't used to celebrating ourselves. We live in a world where we're often too harsh on ourselves, critical of our appearances, and hesitant to embrace our unique beauty. Stepping into a boudoir session requires vulnerability, and that vulnerability often translates into nerves. But let me assure you, that being nervous is not a sign of weakness; it's a testament to your courage! Your boudoir photos are not just a reminder of how beautiful and sexy you are, they are a reminder that you can do hard things! They are a reminder that you are strong and powerful.
What sets my studio apart is the understanding that nervousness is a natural part of the process. From the very first consultation, I make it my priority to create a safe space where my clients can shed their inhibitions and feel comfortable expressing themselves. I guide you through every step of the journey, from the initial planning stages to the moment they step in front of the camera.
During the session itself, I am more than just a photographer; I am a reassuring presence. I provide gentle direction, encouragement, and support, ensuring that my clients feel at ease throughout the entire experience. It's this guidance and unwavering support that helps transform nervousness into confidence.
Here’s what Amber had to say about her session:
“I had an amazing experience working with Kelly! She followed up with me every step of the way and walked me through the entire process of what would be going on in the session. She is very personable and made me feel comfortable during the entire session. I will definitely be using her for future sessions!”
What's heartwarming is that by the end of the session, my clients often express surprise at how natural and relaxed they felt. That initial nervousness fades away, replaced by a newfound sense of self-assurance. The images captured during these moments are not just photographs; they are testaments to the beauty, strength, and authenticity of each individual.
My clients choose me not only for my photographic skills but because they know they can trust me to capture their essence in a way that feels genuine. The natural, relaxed aura portrayed in my work stems from the comfort and trust established during our sessions. It's about capturing the true essence of my clients, showcasing their beauty in a way that resonates with who they are at their core. 99% of my clients have told me either before booking or before their session that they were “nervous, but excited” and this was “outside of their comfort zone”; but you would never know it! In fact, every client has also told me they chose me as their boudoir photographer because of how natural and relaxed my clients look in my photos!
So, if you find yourself feeling nervous wondering if you can do a boudoir session, know that you're not alone. Embrace those nerves, for they are a testament to your bravery. Trust in the process, and allow yourself to be guided through an experience that celebrates your unique beauty. And remember, the most breathtaking images often arise from moments of vulnerability transformed into confidence.
When you choose Kelly Jacobi Photography for your boudoir photos, you can expect a truly personalized and extraordinary experience. I understand that each client has their own unique story that brought them here and their own hopes and vision for their session, and I am here to bring that vision to life!
To ensure that every detail aligns with your dream session, I offer a complimentary consultation where we’ll get to know each other on a short phone call. You’ll be able to tell me what you’re hoping for in a session and I’ll be able to answer all your questions. When you book your session we'll discuss your vision, preferences, and location ideas to create the amazing boudoir session you’ve always dreamed of!